Four years after beloved actress Pauline Quirke stepped away from the spotlight, her son Charlie Quirke has shared a deeply emotional update about her life with dementia â a condition the 66-year-old was diagnosed with in 2021.
Best known to millions as Sharon Theodopolopodous from Birds of a Feather, Pauline has long been considered one of Britainâs national treasures. Now, her family is facing a challenge they never expected⊠and doing everything they can to turn heartbreak into hope.
 A Son on a Mission: A 120km Trek of Love
Charlie, 31, has revealed that he is preparing for a five-day, 120km fundraising trek in support of Alzheimerâs Research UK, a charity his mum cares deeply about.
Beginning on 8 December, the walk will retrace meaningful places from Paulineâs life:
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Chigwell, Essex â where Birds of a Feather was set
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West Ham Unitedâs training ground â the familyâs beloved club

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Through Greater London, Surrey, Berkshire
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Finishing on 12 December at the family home in Buckinghamshire, where they will gather for Christmas
âIâm excited â and nervous,â Charlie admitted. âEach day will be filled with tears, laughs, memories and, most of all, love for my mum. Iâm doing this for her and for every family who knows the devastation of dementia. We need a cure.â
 âIâll carry all Mumâs memories with meâ
Charlie says the walk will be as emotional as it is physically demanding.
âThereâs so much about Mumâs life I still donât know,â he explained. âIâll be learning about her, step by step, and carrying all her memories with me when I reach home for Christmas.â
For Charlie, this journey isnât just about fundraising â itâs about honouring the woman who shaped him.
 âEvery day is different⊠and thatâs what makes it so difficultâ
Paulineâs dementia diagnosis in 2021 brought her celebrated acting career to an abrupt end.
Charlie says the condition continues to challenge the family in unpredictable ways.
âMy mum has always been my best friend, and dementia hasnât changed that,â he said. âSheâs happy and loving as much as she can be â but every day is different. Itâs a progressive illness, and thereâs no cure. I wouldnât wish it on anyone.â
Still, he counts himself lucky.
âWeâve got a big family, and weâre all in this together. Thereâs so much love â it makes the hard days easier.â
 Why They Decided to Share Her Diagnosis
Charlie and his family chose to go public about Paulineâs dementia to raise awareness and help others.
âThe hardest part is knowing thereâs no cure. Itâs not right, and itâs not fair,â he said. âThatâs why we shared Mumâs diagnosis â to shine a light on dementia and support research. Itâs the only thing that gives families hope at the end of the tunnel.â
 A Family Determined to Bring Hope
Hilary Evans-Newton, CEO of Alzheimerâs Research UK, said the charity is âhonouredâ to have the family as ambassadors.
âCharlie knows the devastation dementia causes,â she said. âHis trek will inspire the public, raise vital funds, and help bring us closer to a cure. Pauline is loved across the nation, and learning more about her through Charlieâs journey will touch so many.â
 Charlie and His Dad Speak Out on BBC Breakfast
Earlier today (17 November), Charlie and his father Steve appeared on BBC Breakfast to speak openly about Paulineâs condition.
Steve recalled the first concerning moment in 2020, before her diagnosis:
âShe got a script and called me, saying the words werenât going in. Thatâs when it started.â
Their reaction to the diagnosis was one of disbelief.
âWe looked at each other and said, âCanât be⊠maybe itâs long Covid.â We didnât want to accept it.â
When asked about her current stage, Steve explained:
âNo one can tell you. Sheâs happy, sheâs funny, she talks, she says âI love youâ every time she sees us. But how long this stage lasts â four years, ten years, twenty â no one knows.â
Charlie added, âShe still knows exactly who we are. Thatâs a blessing.â
 Turning Pain Into Purpose
For the Quirke family, using Paulineâs story to raise awareness is now part of their mission.
âIf we can help even just a little by sharing Mumâs journey, we should,â Steve said.
And as Charlie prepares to walk hundreds of thousands of steps in honour of the woman who raised him, he hopes his mumâs legacy will help guide families through their darkest moments â just as she guided him.


