With a huge smile on her face, actress Nikki Sanderson tells us sheâsâ âcompletely obsessedâ as she gazes lovingly at her six-week-old son. Besotted partner and fellow soap star Anthony Quinlan agrees. âWe canât stop staring at him,â he says proudly.
Nikki and Anthony are on cloud nine as they sit down together for their first exclusive interview since Anthony James Quinlan was born on April 19, weighing a very healthy 7lbs 9oz.
âHeâs named after his dad and my brother James,â Nikki, 42, explains. âTwo very special men. Weâre truly blessed. Heâs just so calm, which is great for us while weâre getting used to the baby bubble.â
Nikki and Anthony have named their son Anthony James Quinlan
Indeed, it must be a relief for the pair to have such a chilled-out child, given the way he made his entrance into the world.
âIt wasnât a straightforward birth,â Nikki says. âItâs very rare that you hear of anyoneâs birth being easy. Many people have lots have complications and so did we. Fortunately, Anthony came out safely and I was in safe hands too. The hospital [the Royal Bolton Hospital] and midwives were absolutely fantastic.â
For reasons Nikki wants to keep private, she was induced at 39 weeks by way of a hormonal gel, which is used to progress the labour slowly. However, her body became hypersensitive to it, sending her into sudden, non-stop contractions that lasted 24 hours. Her dream of a natural birth was shattered when doctors advised an emergency C-section.
âThe problem was that I was consistently contracting, but wasnât dilating,â Nikki explains. âThe doctors tried numerous times to manually pull my cervix down, to try and break my waters. They were trying everything but nothing was working. I was in such horrific pain. Iâd been consistently contracting with no dilating for 24 hours. My body was exhausted.â
Eventually, doctors were concerned enough to make the call. Nikki says, âThe midwife got the consultant and told them, âShe canât continue like this.â At this point, I was kind of out of it â my body had started shaking and I was in a lot of pain. The consultant said, âFor the sake of your baby not becoming distressed, we advise you to have an emergency C-section. You physically canât carry on with this.ââ
Anthony was equally concerned. âNik was so tired at this point, there was a concern that if she did go into full-blown labour she wouldnât have the strength to push through it.â
With the consultantâs words echoing in her ears and wanting only the best for her baby, Nikki didnât hesitate. âIt was never a question in my mind,â she says, âI just told them, âDo whatever you think is best, so long as the baby comes out and heâs safe.â So thatâs what we did.
âIâve never given birth before and itâs a really scary time. You donât know what to expect, whatâs going to happen or what youâre doing. So to have that supportive unit of people around us made things so much easier. Holding little Anthony for the first time, thereâs no feeling like it.â
While Nikki does say she didnât have a birth plan, her hope was for a natural birth, so she wasnât expecting the huge recovery that comes with a Caesarean.
âIâve been in a lot of pain since giving birth, which is to be expected, but as Iâd been contracting for so long, all layers of me were contracted,â she explains. âAnd to cut through those types of contracted muscles can cause extra pain afterwards, which I didnât realise. But itâs so worth it. Every second of the pain is worth it when you see the little miracle in our arms.â
Thankfully, Anthony is on hand to take care of Nikki, even if she does run away with herself at times. He says, âWe were back home after three days in the hospital and immediately I was like, âYouâre not doing anything.â But Nik is so strong-willed. I was catching her doing little things like trying to twist, turn, get up. The number of times I tell her to just stop and slow down.â
Nikki in return is full of praise for her partner of four years. âHeâs been fantastic,â she says, looking lovingly at him. âHis support has been invaluable â heâs been a rock for me the whole way through it. Heâs been thrown massively in at the deep end, really. Because I had the C-section in the evening, I couldnât feel my legs until the next day, so I couldnât do anything. Anthony had to do everything. He wasnât just being a dad and looking after his son, he was also having to care for me as well.â
Since getting home, both Nikki and Anthony have eased into their new life with minimal fuss.
Anthony says, âHeâs such a good boy, we canât fault him whatsoever. He has a little moan every now and then when heâs a bit tired or when he wants food, but otherwise heâs calm. Weâve loved every second of it. Even though weâve made this transition to being parents, it feels like heâs always been here.â
While celeb pals such as Jamie Lomas have already visited little Anthony, this interview is the first time the couple have publicly showed their baby to the world. But their families have all met him.
âHe is absolutely surrounded by love,â Nikki smiles. âEveryone is in awe of him.â
When it comes to the name, Nikki and Anthony have chosen to refer to the little one as Anthony, though before he was born his nickname was Mini Quinny.
âDifferent members of our family and friends have all started calling him different things,â Anthony says. âA couple of people call him AJ, some Tony. I used to get called Toe, so heâs Little Toe as well. I love the fact that heâs got my name.â
For Nikki and Anthony, the road to parenthood was long. Nikki froze her eggs early in their relationship, knowing her biological clock was ticking. The pair tried for two years to conceive.
âWe were kind of resigned to the fact that we may need assistance via IVF,â Anthony has said previously.
The couple were delighted to discover they were pregnant just before they started the process. But Nikki suffered horrific trolling when people online said she was âtoo oldâ to be pregnant.
Now Nikki is determined not to pay any attention to the comments and is embracing being a mum in her forties.
âI would never dream of saying something so awful to another person,â she says. âItâs such horrible, wasted, negative energy. The bottom line is, it shouldnât matter how old you are. We planned this baby for so long and weâre in a happy, loving relationship. Weâre healthy, we keep fit, so actually weâre in a wonderful position to have a child. Why is it someone elseâs prerogative to decide it isnât the right time for us? We have our beautiful boy and he is happy and loved and surely thatâs all that matters?â
Anthony agrees, âMy mum was 16 when she had me. And people had something to say about that as well. When the time comes, giving birth and having a child is just the greatest gift. And weâve been fortunate enough to have that.â
âSince having him, Iâve not really been that active online,â Nikki says. âThe only comments Iâve seen have been congratulatory and thatâs the way it should be when you have a baby. Itâs really sad if people arenât happy for you, and it definitely says more about them than it does about you.â
Now the ecstatic parents are looking ahead to a very bright future with baby Anthony â even if that does include a lot more âstuffâ.
âEven though heâs only been here a few short weeks, it feels like heâs never not been here,â beams Anthony. âAnd yeah, you do forget what life was like before, especially when youâre trying to leave the house and youâve got, like, 1,000 things to remember to take with you.â


