Dreyer opened up for the first time about her decision to separate from Fichera, whom she married in 2012
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Dylan Dreyer is opening up like never before nearly four months after announcing her separation from husband Brian Fichera.
On Wednesday, Nov. 5, Dreyer, 44, served as a guest co-host on Today with Jenna & Friends, where the meteorologist was asked by co-host Jenna Bush Hager about her dating life now that she is single.
Dreyer got candid about the ongoing discussion surrounding her personal life after she publicly announced in July that she and Fichera, whom she married in 2012, had been separated for months with plans to remain friends for the sake of their three sons, Cal, 8, Ollie, 5, and Rusty, 4.
âI appreciate everyoneâs comments that have spoken up about my life and our decisions and what we have decided as a family, thank you for your opinions on that,â Dreyer quipped before getting into the reasons behind her split.
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âEverybody has their reasons for what leads to a separation or divorce. Thatâs another story with a lot of wine and thatâs a whole different thing, but either way weâve gotten to this place,â Dreyer explained. âAnd thereâs something freeing, I think, for Brian and I where â whatever reasons, whatever broke in a marriage â you could either fix it if you can and ideally you would and you try, and you try to fix things. Or you accept that itâs broken and you take this new step forward.â
Dreyer added that âthere was something we couldnât fix,â so now she and Fichera have âreframedâ their relationship.
âWe are no longer husband and wife and all those things that were broken, I donât hold them against you because weâve accepted theyâre broken,â the co-host explained. âThatâs why weâre separated. So now letâs move forward as friends. And Iâm not mad at those other things that I was getting mad at before because, just like a friend you give them a little more grace when youâre not married to it. And I can be a better friend than a wife.â
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Now, Dreyer and Ficheraâs priorities lie with their sons, even talking to their kids about their evolving relationship.
âWe even talked to the kids about it. I asked Calvin. I said, âWhat do you think a family is?â â Dreyer recalled. âAnd he said, âWell, itâs a group of people that love each other.â And I said, âThatâs what we are. And we will always be that for you. But Mommy and Daddy work better as friends than as husband and wife.â And he doesnât care about a title. He doesnât care what we are officially, none of them do. They are surrounded by love every single day.â
The NBC morning show co-host shared that Fichera drops their kids off at school most days and that they all eat dinner together as a family most nights with plans to celebrate Thanksgiving together in a few weeks.
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âFirst and foremost the kids have to feel love and they have to be happy,â she said. âI have three boys. I want their dad in their lives. They need that. They need both the dynamic of a father and a mother. Weâre providing that to them in the best way possible.â
And while sheâs reached a good place in regards to her split, Dreyer agreed when Bush Hager, 43, described her as âheartbrokenâ over the past few months.
âIâve relied on my faith more than anything⊠and thereâs something really comforting about knowing that there is a higher power holding my hand every day,â she shared, adding that she has been surprised by just how content she feels at this stage of life.
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âI even talk to my therapist. I go, âAm I repressing feelings? Am I pushing things down? Is this healthy what Iâm doing?â Because I feel okay every day,â she said. âI come to work and I smile and itâs not fake. I feel genuinely happy. Iâm with my kids and Iâm laughing all the time. Iâm with Brian and Iâm laughing.â
Back in July, Dreyer shared that she and Fichera had made the decision to separate months prior.
âWe began as friends. And we will remain the closest of friends,â Dreyer shared at the time. âMost importantly, we will continue to co-parent our three wonderful boys together with nothing but love and respect for one another.â


