Frankie Bridge broke down in tears as she revealed she is struggling to cope with her son Carterâs worsening dyslexia â and shared her dilemma over whether to send him to an âexpensiveâ specialist school far away from home.
The former Saturdays star, 37, shared an emotional update in her latest YouTube vlog, revealing 10-year-old Carterâs dyslexia has worsened dramatically since his diagnosis last year.
Dyslexia is a learning difficulty that primarily affects accurate and fluent word reading and spelling, and can affect individuals of all intelligence levels.
Frankie â who shares Carter and son Parker, 12, with former footballer husband Wayne Bridge â admitted she feels âtrappedâ and doesnât know âwhat the right thing is for him anymoreâ after dropping him at school in tears over his struggles.
I, today, went to see a specialist dyslexic school for Carter,â Frankie explained. âHis recent assessment is that he is severely dyslexic, and heâs worse than his last assessment.
â[The assessor] said that, because of the effect of him moving school so many times, and having to readjust to new environments, new teachers, new friends, or whatever, obviously thatâs affected his confidence and to move him now probably wouldnât be the best thing for him.â

Frankie Bridge broke down in tears as she struggled to cope with son Carterâs dyslexia and shared dilemma over whether to send him to an âexpensiveâ specialist school far from home

The former Saturdays star, 37, shared an emotional update in her latest YouTube vlog, revealing 10-year-old Carterâs dyslexia has worsened dramatically since his diagnosis last year
The Loose Women panellist revealed that while Carterâs current school near their home in Surrey provides good support, a specialist school may be a better option for when he begins secondary education in September next year.
âThere is one not far â I mean, it is quite far from us for a drop-off and a pickup point of view,â she admitted. âIâm not really sure how weâd make it work.â
The star explained her initial reservations about visiting the school, saying: âIf Iâm honest with you, I kind of wanted to hate it⊠I guess itâs the fear of putting a kid in something different.â
But she was impressed by what she saw, saying: âItâs very similar to the school heâs in now, itâs just every class, everyone at the school is dyslexic and every class is catered to be able to teach children with dyslexia, they donât need one on one, because the whole class is doing the same thing, because everyoneâs dyslexic.â
Frankie also expressed concerns about whether Carter would become reliant on specialist teaching methods, but acknowledged: âThe whole point of the [specialist] school is to get them to a level where theyâre confident enough within themselves and they know enough to be able to go back into the mainstream school.â
She added that sending Carter away to such a school would be a huge upheaval for the family â both financially and logistically.
âItâs not an ideal scenario for us because itâs far away and itâs really f***ing expensive,â she said. âBut it was lovely. And I think his confidence has been so battered that Iâm like, how lovely to put him in an environment where he doesnât feel different, and that heâs actually being set up for success rather than failure.â
Specialist secondary schools for dyslexic children in the UK typically cost between ÂŁ15,000 and ÂŁ40,000 a year for day places, though some boarding options can exceed ÂŁ60,000. Costs vary based on location, boarding, and intensity of specialised support.
Frankie added: âHeâs had to move to so many different schools, and nothingâs been able to meet his needs. I just donât know if itâs realistic for us as a family, for us to be able to get him there and back every day.â
The former pop star then broke down as she described dropping Carter off at school, where he had been crying about maths â âhis hardest subject by a mileâ.
Trying to fight back tears, Frankie said: âI find it mentally just so hard that I just never know what to do, whatâs best for him.
âThereâll be so many parents out there, I know, that have to drop their kids off, crying at school every day. I just feel a bit worn down by it now. I just feel a bit trapped because, obviously, they have to go to school.
âHeâs been to so many different schools that I just canât move him again. And I just donât know what the right thing is for him anymore.â

Frankie couldnât hold back her tears as she admitted she feels âtrappedâ and doesnât know âwhat the right thing is for him anymoreâ after dropping him at school in tears over his struggles

The Loose Women star shares sons Carter and Parker, 12, with former footballer husband Wayne Bridge
An emotional Frankie added: âWe try so much, and weâve been lucky to be able to give him different opportunities with different people. And I know he has more opportunity than some, but itâs just breaking my heart having to keep pushing him. Heâs just got so long left at school.â
She then compared her 10-year-old sons school experience to his older brother Parker, saying: âParker had extra help when he was younger and now heâs so solid at school. He can just get on with it. Donât get me wrong, heâs like, middle of the road, but he works really hard.â
She added: âWhen youâve got one kid that it just comes easily to, and you can see how, for most people, thatâs how it is, itâs just very hard.â
Frankie first revealed Carter had been diagnosed with dyslexia last year. At the time, she admitted it had been a âbattleâ getting help for him at his previous school.
She shared that Carter had âcried for an hourâ about going to school and repeatedly asked to be homeschooled, adding: âI feel really helpless, and I donât know what else I can do for him really.â
Previously, Frankie shared that Carter was diagnosed with dyslexia when he was eight years old, having only learned about his education struggles when he was told he would have to repeat his entire reception year.
Writing a piece for The i, she said: In the eyes of the system, he wasnât old enough to be officially diagnosed with anything at the time, but we hoped it would give the teachers a better idea of how to help him.
âEveryoneâs biggest concern with Carter was his lack of confidence. He was aware that others in his class were able to do things that he couldnât.â
âWhen he finally turned eight last year, he was officially diagnosed with dyslexia. I foolishly saw this as the missing piece. That his teachers and us would now know exactly what to put into place to teach him in a way that he would understand. Unfortunately, this just wasnât the case.â
She said at the time she and husband Wayne decided to move him to an international school which they knew would be better equipped to suit Carterâs needs.


